Wednesday, May 30, 2012

Homemade Laundry Detergent

This is a pretty standard recipe for making homemade laundry detergent, you can find it anywhere online, so it's nothing original. It works very well, makes about 10 gallons and costs only a few dollars to make. First, you'll need to go to the store for the following items.

  • 1 Bar Fels Naptha Heavy Duty Laundry Soap (I looked everywhere and finally found it at Wal-Mart for 97 cents.)
  • Borax (1/2 cup) (I found 4 lbs and 12 oz for $4)
  • Arm & Hammer Super Washing Soda (1 cup) (Again, you may have to look around, but my grocery store had 55 oz for $2.50)
Start up cost: $7.47 -- But let's break it down because you can use the washing soda 6.5 times and the borax 7 times. Each recipe: Super Washing Soda $.38 + Borax $.57 + Fels Naptha $.97 = Total $1.92 Per Recipe **Each recipe yields approximately 640 Loads (Front Loader) or 180 loads (Top Loader) Since math is just so fun and we have a front loader, it costs $.003 per load -- uh... that's like a fraction of a penny... Hello? AWESOME!

Grate the soap
Heat soap with 4 cups of water on medium, stirring constantly until melted.
Fill a bin with 2.5 gallons of hot tap water. (That's 40 cups)

Add melted soap, 1/2 cup Borax, and 1 cup Super Washing Soda. Stir until all of the powder dissolves.

*All mixed*
Add another 2.5 gallons of hot tap water (40 cups)
Let sit overnight and it will turn into gel. You have 2 options: 1. Fill up an empty laundry detergent container halfway with the concentrated mix and half with water and do this as you go. 2. If you have a large enough container, add another 5 gallons of hot tap water. -- **Note: Be sure to shake the container or mix before every use as the gel and water will separate.

Front loader washing machine = 1/4 cup per load
Top loader washing machine = 5/8 cup per load

**Note: You can add essential oils if you want. I've heard about 10-15 drops is good and to add it after it's cooled.

Thursday, May 17, 2012

My 10 Best Mom Moments

  • When I'm going to the restroom and everyone has to witness the act. They all crowd in there like a packed nightclub, I might as well dim the lights and install a disco ball.
  • How saying "Don't drop that" triggers an immediate dropping response.
  • Getting settled into a hot bubble bath to relax when my son walks in with his big tug boat full of bath toys, strips down and gets right in.
  • How as soon as he gets into said bath, he immediately pees in the tub.
  • When flow comes to town, of couse everyone needs to be in the bathroom, my son lays down on the floor, looking up between my legs, "Mom, are you dying?".
  • Getting to the check out, pulling out my wallet, only to realize that my credit cards have been swiped by a 2 ft. tall kleptomaniac.
  • Sharing my water, only to get it back cloudy and with food particles left in it.
  • Poop. The amount of it and how it always manages to get on my hands.
  • Enjoying a nice hike in the woods or fishing by the river and my son looks up at me, "Mommy, I have to poop."...
  • When my son is spazzing out and I go to grab for my coffee cup, but it is magically empty.

Sunday, May 13, 2012

Spend Wisely - 10 Money saving tips for a family of 4

Spend Wisely - 10 Money saving tips for a family of 4 + Some baby saving tips.

There are 2 things to remember when it comes to spending wisely: 1. Time is money - You can buy so many things to save time. If you want to cut back on your spending, you need to be willing to put in the time. 2. You can have everything. Just not today.

** Updated 5/17/2012 
I just  wanted to share a little bit about using credit cards wisely. Using your debit card for purchases and bills can be dangerous. If you get mis-billed or double billed, which happens, it can drain your bank account and can take weeks to recover, leaving you high and dry. It is wise to find a credit card that provides good protections and rewards. There are 3 benefits: 1: If you get mis-billed or double billed, you can contact your credit card company and the transaction can be put on hold for investigation without wiping out you bank account. 2: Some cards provided an extended warranty on your purchases. So, if a buisness won't honor your refund or exchange, your credit card company can protect you. 3: Building rewards. You can collect points for flights, vacations, and sometimes even cash back rewards. Now, it's very important to not carry a balance. Set a limit on your monthly spending so that you can pay it off every month. By not carrying a balance, you do not accrue intrest charges. 

  1. Eliminate waist and re-use: It seems like you can get just about anything in disposable form these days; ranging from paper towels, paper plates, disposable diapers, wipes to make up remover pads. Think about everything that you just throw away, it's money down the drain. Try switching to washcloths for cleaning, using the plates sitting in the cabinet, cloth diapering and wipes are big savers too. Instead of throwing something away, try to re-use it or find a new purpose for it. *We dedicated a month and to see if we could fill up our big kitchen trash can once after watching No Impact Man. We weren't able to pull it off, but it brought a lot of attention to how much we were just throwing out. We've reduced our waist 10 fold since then. Now we have a closet where we put stuff to re-use, ex: coffee containers, wine bottles, cereal boxes, etc. We actually have a blast making things out of trash!*
  2. Make it, don't buy it: I just love Pinterest! Have I said that before? You can find a DIY tutorial on there for just about anything. Need a set of stackable outdoor chairs? Make 'em. Baby mobile? There's a million ways to make those. *We've proudly made our kitchen table, coffee table, side table, and a wall shelf by using discarded wood and furniture. Our kitchen table was once someone's workbench.*
  3. Garden and buy local: Grass looks nice and all but it doesn't really serve much of a purpose... Take half of your lawn and grow a garden. Try using heirloom/open pollination seeds, you can get years of use out of just one packet. It's great to get the kids involved too. *My Wild Thing loves to go sneak lettuce and kale out of the garden for an afternoon treat. I'm not sure that he would want to eat those things if he hadn't watched them grow from little seedlings.* If you don't have a lawn or your city folk like us, urban gardening is the way to go. You can use anything as a planter; shipping crates, an old wheel barrel, bowls or cups... I could go on all day here. Also, buying local produce from farmers markets or joining a CSA (community supported agriculture) not only helps your wallet but it also helps the economy. Support small business. These guys are family farmers that put their blood, sweat, and tears to grow quality crops. Local is better than organic.
  4. Cook from scratch: Everyone knows that you will save tons on money by eating at home, but you can save even more by making everything from scratch. You could buy a loaf of bread for $2.99 or make one from scratch for 25 cents (p.s. you don't need a bread machine to make bread). Everything that is pre-made, in the box or bag is going to cost you a premium. *I would say that our family of 4 eats about 75% organic fresh produce and non-processed foods... sounds expensive? Our monthly grocery bill runs us about $450.* Aside from the money that you are saving, eating processed foods (even when they have that cute little organic label or a picture of a pretty hillside farm on the front of it) is loaded with unnecessary calories and sodium. - Don't have the time? Eat it the way nature intended to. Eat it raw, eat it simple. You don't need fancy recipes to feed your family a well balanced diet.
  5. Take hand me downs and buy used: Kids go through clothes so fast and sometimes, they only wear them just a few times. Don't be afraid to take hand me downs from a friend with an older kid or buy used at a consignment shop or garage sale. I'm not just talking clothes here; furniture, toys, kids gadgets like swings, bouncers etc. I'm also a big fan of curb finds. People will throw something out for the slightest imperfection. Hello? Crayon washes out! When it comes to furniture, you want to look for something that has potential. It may look crummy on the surface, but if it's solid wood, you can sand that baby down, put on a new coat of varnish and voila! looks like new!
  6. Make a budget and track your spending EVERYDAY: Don't just spend freely without knowing where it goes and you can't just ignore you're account balance. When you're making your budget, be realistic. Maybe you eat out once a week *we do*, maybe you like to go see a movie once in a while... put it in there. Don't pretend like it doesn't exist or it will sneak up on you later. Map out your spending and see where it's going. You may be surprised to see that you are spending a lot on eating out or buying frivolous things. When you break it down, it's easy to see where you can change your spending habits. After all is said and done, see how much you have left over, (I know that some of us don't have a lot) and try to block out a portion of that to save. If you end up having a bad month, then at least you left yourself a buffer.
  7. Find those extra expenditures and cut them out: Think about your monthly expenditures and ask yourself if you really need it all. Cable can cost a fortune. An antenna will cost you about $60 and is free to use indefinitely. You can watch all of your network shows and prime time TV in HD with an antenna now a days. Do you need a smart phone? Better yet does everyone in your house need a smart phone? *Wonderful and I decided that we did need one, but that it wasn't necessary for us to both have one.* The service on each smart phone costs an additional $30 on top of your contract. Gym memberships that your not using... a home phone that just rings with sales calls... find out what you don't need and cut it.
  8. Be a loyal customer: Loyalty will get you a long way with your insurance company, cell phone company, internet provider, and your bank. Your insurance rate goes down the longer your with a company and your bank is more likely to give you a better interest rate after you've been with them for a while. It also gives you the leverage to say, "Hey! I've been with you guys for 10 years, you owe me a better deal.". Bouncing around can get expensive with early termination fees, start up fees and deposits. *Wonderful said that I should give the disclaimer to still shop around for a better deal. He's right. You can take that deal and go back to your people and say, "These guys are offing me this. Will you match it or beat it?". If they can't, maybe it's time to move on.*
  9. Buy smart and take advantage of the freebies: First of all, always make a shopping list! Never, ever, EVER buy anything off the list before going home and sleeping on it. That's what you call an impulse buy. 9 times out of 10, you'll realize that you didn't need it the next day. When making a big purchase, ask yourself a few questions first: How long do I expect this item to last? What's an appropriate amount to spend on something that is going to provide X amount of use when I make X amount of money? And give yourself a spending cap before you price out the item. *For example, Twinkle Toes is almost 11 months, and she needed new summer clothes. I knew that they aren't going to last for very long and I'm just going to end up giving them away in a few months, so, I gave my self a $75 spending cap before I went in the store.* Most importantly, don't buy cheap! It'll just fall apart and you'll have to buy another one. Buy something that is well made and durable so that you only have to get it once. Don't forget to take advantage of your freebies: I don't have a long list here because... well... I grew up with the Texas Republican Agenda in my ear. I'm not talking about welfare or food stamps, ok. I'm talking about your local library and special deals... This is tough to explain... *for example, the children's museum out here does half price if you go after 4p. The aquarium is free to locals on the 3rd Tuesday of every month.* Get savvy on that stuff. Living Social and Groupon are pretty cool too.
  10. You can have everything that you want, you just can't get it all today. Spread out your spending. *We leave a "free spending" section in our budget for things that we "want", but once the limit has been reached, it has to wait til next month, even if we have the money for it.*
Baby saving tips: (I can add more of these later too, because there are tons! *I'm always telling people that we have "free" babies.)
  • Breastfeed
  • Cloth Diaper
  • Make your own baby food
  • Don't buy toys. - They really don't need them, a measuring cup and a wooden spoon has brought more happiness to my children than any toy that I could have ever bought them.
  • Be minimalistic. Kids really don't need much. Just you.

Saturday, May 12, 2012

Women Only! - The real deal on The Menstrual Cup

**Dudes beware: This post is SO not for you.

The real deal scoop on The Menstrual Cup:
Beware: I tried to be discreet as possible, but it is necessary to share the details. We're talking about a menstrual cup here...

Why you should consider it:
If you're trying to reduce your waste impact, something to think about: Tampons can take up to 400 years to decompose in a landfill. Let's make a scenario so that we can grasp the full impact of this: the average woman menstruates for 7 days... maybe she changes her tampon 3 times a day, for about 40 years... you're looking at at around 10,080 tampons over her life. Multiply that times a million and then by 400 *great, I have to pull out my scientific calculator here*, in half a century there could be over 4 Trillion tampons rotting in a landfill. Should we even mention the chemicals?... Oh yea! They aren't just pretty white cotton. Those chemicals will be leaching into the earth and ground water, yum.

If you're in it to save money... hold on, let me pull out my calculator again... (I just googled tampons, shopping, and found that on average, with name brand tampons, you can get an 18 pack for around about $5.) Let's just do an annual calculation because the cup is really only supposed to last a year. 10,080 divided by 40, then divided by 18, multiplied by 5... c'mon, keep up! That's $70. The cup will cost you $40. That's a $30 annual savings. Big woop, right? Multiply that times 40... $1,200 savings between puberty and menopause.

If none of those appeal to you, I've got 3 words for ya, Toxic Shock Syndrome.

What to expect:
I'm sure that you're first thought is, gross! It's really not. You get no more dirty than you would fooling around with a tampon or pad, and no, I'm not splatter painting my bathroom walls.

  • Expect to have to buy more than one to find the right size at first. Every woman is different, most cups come in 2 sizes and each brand is sized differently. They are non-returnable and it's not like buying a bra where you can go into the dressing room and find the right cup size. I had to buy 2 and wasn't exactly stoked about it.
  • Plan on it taking a couple months to get used to. I don't know about all of you other women, but it took me a while to get used to using a tampon. This is no exception. Stick with it, things will go wrong.
  • You won't feel it. If it's in right, and you have the right size, you won't notice that it is there.
  • It really does last for 12 hours. It's a cup! It'll hold a lot more than some cotton stick. The plus side of this, you only have to change it morning and night. So, you don't have to worry about changing it in a public bathroom.
  • It does NOT come out like a tampon. Don't freak out, it's not going to get lost in there. It will come out.
  • It doesn't smell. Blood starts to smell once it touches oxygen. The cup makes a seal, so the blood doesn't touch oxygen until you pull it out. No smell.
My experience:
Ok, I'm not speaking from some dream experience here, "Oh, the Diva Cup changed my life!". It's was a huge ordeal, and the information on the internet is very limited. I'm hoping that by sharing my experiences, other's can have a better experience starting out. 

Round 1: The first cup I bought was the large size Diva Cup. A pushy sales lady talked me into it because I had previously had children, I explained that am I am very petite and have had cesareans, but she wouldn't let me walk out with the smaller size... I was right, it was way to big for me. 2 terrible things happened: 1. It wouldn't expand properly and leaked. 2. It pressed up against my bladder having me going to the restroom, no exaggeration, literally every 10 minutes. It felt like I had a UTI for 2 weeks afterwards. For the record, the test results came back negative for a UTI, I assume it was some kind of internal bruising. I was irate when neither the store that I bought it from or the actual Diva Cup company would not offer a replacement. *I'm boycotting both of those jokers now* So, I went to the internet, read all of the forums that I could find, and researched all different kinds of cups. There's a couple different kind. The main ones are The Diva Cup from Canada, The Moon Cup from the UK, and The Lunette Cup from Finland. **They are all a little different, it's about finding what fits you** I decided to order the small size Lunette Cup off of Amazon because the forums claimed that the silicone rim was softer and their website had better information that applied to me, such as, people who do yoga and pilates have a stronger pelvic floor and should go with a smaller size.
Left: Lunette Cup Model 1 Right: Diva Cup Model 2
Round 2: The Lunette Cup. I was NOT excited to do this thing again... I continued to used the Diva Wash because I still have it and they sell it at Whole Foods. The initial experience was pleasant. It fit, it didn't leak, and my bladder was fine. I needed to trim the wick because it was irritating me, which made me nervous because it was my safety string. Things went well for 3 days... Then, I started to get some serious irritation from putting it in and taking it out. It's silicone... rubbing rubber on your skin isn't that pleasant either. Problem numero dos, something that felt like a yeast infection. -- This time I wasn't going back to the doctor to get the head tilt, "Now, please explain to me... what exactly is this Menstrual Cup?" with her pen and notepad as if I was some lunatic patient that was experimenting by pouring cyanide in my vagina. -- I was very clean about it. I boiled the cup before use, washed it at every change, washed my hands, washed down below... How could this happen? Again, I consulted the internet forums. Turns out, like douching, the wash will strip you of all of that good bacteria. They recommended using a half vinegar, half water solution to wash the cup between changes. Having that information, and since the Monistat wasn't working *it probably wasn't a yeast infection*, I cleaned myself with a vingar soaked towelette for a couple days and the symptoms cleared up. 
Round 3: The Lunette Cup round 2. I went into it more confidently, I had a good cup and a better plan of action, which I'll describe in the "how to use the darn thing". It all came together: No irritation, no discomfort, nothing negative. It went great! It took me 2 months to work out how to use it, and now I'm officially a menstrual cup user.

How to use the darn thing:
Pick these things up, you'll need them:
  • Your menstrual cup. Any size or brand that works for you.
  • Some type of feminine wash, I'm still using the Diva Wash $11 even though I think that they suck for not offering a replacement to such a loyally green customer.
  • Distilled White Vinegar
  • KY Jelly
  • A bath tub and 5-10 min.
*When you get your cup, boil it for 5 min to disinfect it before use.*
  • Get into the empty bath (bottoms off) and run the water with the drain open.
  • In a small bowl or basin, soak your cup in vinegar and water for a few min.
  • Using the wash, clean your hands and your labia majora (outside of your vagina) -- since we're getting technical here.
  • Rinse off the cup and fold it according to the directions or as indicated in the image below.
  • Using a dot of KY Jelly, rub it around the portion of the cup that will go in first.
  • Insert the cup *standing up* until you'll feel it expand. It'll go *bloop*. Is that a good explanation? Run your fingers around the base of it to make sure it's fully expanded. *Note: It's not going to go all the way up to your cervix like a tampon, just into the entrance of your vaginal canal. You should be able to feel the wick with your finger. I've also heard that you should insert in the direction of your rectum. Not IN your rectum. Got it? The directions say to give it a turn, but who can do that?
Visual Demonstration of how it works when you put the cup in.
12 hours later... **It is very important that you read these directions or you maybe be running around freaking out that you've lost this stupid thing inside of you, trying to figure out who you can call who's got a set of forceps on hand.**
  • Repeat step 1 from 12 hours earlier.
  • Get into a squatting position and bear down. If you've ever had a baby, or faked an orgasm, you know how to push your kegel muscles. This will push the cup a portion of the way out, enough to where you can grab the base and pull it out. You'll feel a very brief and slightly uncomfortable suction as you pull it out, you can squeeze the base before hand to release the suction to make it more comfortable.
  • Empty the cup and repeat steps 2-6 from 12 hours previous.

Sunday, May 6, 2012

Day 16 - A new way of doing things.

After shutting off the TV, we were like, what do we do? We've had to adjust how we spend our time and I wanted to write an update and brag about how we are spending our "quality" time. First of all, we now have breakfast, lunch and dinner quietly at the kitchen table, he's plays quietly by himself, nap time is back and bed time is going smooth. I sit with the Wild Thing for about an hour a day working on letters, numbers, colors and shapes. I had to take a video for Wonderful, because I knew that he wouldn't believe me. The Wild Thing sat at the table for a whole hour!! Hello?! Is this my kid? We've got the following letters of the alphabet down pat: A, E, I, O, Q... I know another mom whose little boy is a year younger than Wild Thing, and he can recognize the entire alphabet. She's been doing a terrific job with him, and when I found out it made me feel like I've been slacking big time. Ok... ok... it's all good, it's not like he'll never get into Harvard because he didn't know his alphabet at 2. He still knows A LOT about many many other things... I just really want to work on reading because it was something that I fell behind on as a kid, so I did the same thing that my mother did, I ordered hooked on phonics. I'm excited to see how that goes,  I noticed it came with DVDs, so I don't know how it's going to play into our no TV thing.

We're still 100% on the TV ban. Ok, 99%... He asked if he could use the paint program on my iPhone yesterday, so I let him play with it. Twinkle Toes needed a diaper change, and I ran upstairs to change her and I start to hear voices. What th-?! I come down stairs and he's watching Curious George on the PBS app that I had downloaded a while back. I grabbed it and shut it off right away. He couldn't have watched more that 30 seconds of it... I deleted the app. He's found an outlet for his movies though. A while back he got a book with 22 Disney Classics all rolled into one. It has The Little Mermaid, Lady & The Tramp, The Lion King, Cinderella, etc. He sits there for hours looking at this book. It's his way to still connect to the characters from the movies without watching TV. It's pretty cute.

That about covers it. Things are still going really great! We also got some exciting news that Wonderful is getting to do something really cool soon and that means that we'll be moving back to the West Coast for a year. We've got more fun adventures ahead of us...

Thursday, May 3, 2012

Visual Guide: Make your own Hydroponic Wine Bottle Planter

Can you say: Upcycle? YAY!!! It's my favorite thing to do. I love finding junk and turning it into something cool. In this case, the enjoyment doesn't have to end when the wine is all gone...

What you'll need:
  • Wine bottle (Empty and cleaned)
  • A bottle cutter -- I used this one from Amazon $22 Generation Green g2 Bottle Cutter
  • Clay Pellets -- Amazon $17.99 Hydroton Hydroponic Rocks (This bag will last FOREVER!)
  • A candle (and a lighter, says Wonderful.)
  • Ice Cubes
  • A felt wick (or you can make one like I did out of an old hemp cloth diaper insert)
  • Cellophane wrap or a plastic bag
  • Rubber Band
  • Spray bottle with water
  • Herbs

Hydroponic herb planters made out of recycled wine bottles. 

Cutting: First you want to cut your wine bottle. 1. Using the wine bottle cutter, you want to make a score line. Just go around once or twice with medium pressure. 2. Run an ice cube around the score line until cold. 3. Hold the score line about half an inch above the candle's flame and rotate until warm. 4. Repeat steps 2 and 3 until the bottle splits. 5. Sand the edges of the bottle until smooth.

Making a wick: You can just use felt strips, but if you want to make your own wick, I used the hemp from one of my old cloth diaper inserts because I knew that they were super absorbent. Using my sewing machine, I folded it over and over until it became skinny and tight. I'm not very skilled with a sewing machine, so you can use my example below or if you have a better idea, do that.

Planting: Once you have the wine bottle cut and a wick, it's time to put everything together. 1. Take the top half of the wine bottle, the planter section, turn it upside down and place inside the other half, the reservoir. 2. (Presoak your wick so that it is wet) Feed the wick down the tube till it hits the bottom. 3. Slowly add the clay pellets to allow the wick to circle up the inside of the bottle. (The wick will keep the clay pellets moist by drawing up water from the reservoir.) 4. Pour water over the clay pellets until the lower reservoir is three quarters of the way full. 5. Spray water with spray bottle to make sure that all of the pellets are moist. 6. Add seeds. (I think I always add more than you need, but to each their own.)  7. Cover with plastic and keep it sealed with a rubber band.

Growing: Keep in a dark, warm place with the plastic on and spray water with the spray bottle everyday until the seedlings are an inch tall. Then, you can remove the plastic, and I would continue spraying the seedlings until you can see that the roots have worked their way down the neck of the bottle. When your done using your herbs, wash off the clay pellets and start over. Enjoy!

Wednesday, May 2, 2012

Coming to terms with being a SAHM

I've been a stay at home mom for 4 years now. It wasn't exactly my dream to be at home with kids. I had envisioned my early adulthood working as a high powered graphic designer, working late nights and meeting deadlines, not doing late night feedings and changing diapers. When I met Mr. Wonderful, something strange happened, I wanted kids. (If you knew me at the time, you'd know that it was out of character.) Maybe it's some biological connection that you make when you meet someone right, or maybe my clock started ticking... who knows. When I found out I was pregnant, it's was the obvious decision to stay home. 1. As a child I had spent a lot of time in daycare and I hated it. 2. I didn't like the idea of someone raising my kid to be one of those obnoxious rugrats that I couldn't stand to be around. 3. We couldn't afford it. So, we maintained a simple life and I stayed home.

The first 6 months were awesome! I got to sleep in, relax... clean... stare at the walls... change diapers...  stare at a sleeping baby... feed the baby... stare at the floor... It got old fast. That first year, having 1 income couldn't even afford us internet and cable, I was bored out of my mind. What I would have given for a fussy baby... The following 6 months, I just felt like a loser. All of my friends were finishing their degrees and here I was, a couple credits away from a bachelor's degree, kicked out of art school, and being a "mommy". Nobody that we met even bothered to ask what I did, it was just assumed that I was some mindless housewife, and I felt small and undervalued. Depression hit hard and when the Wild Thing turned a year, I finally got a bug up my butt to try to work from home. I did research on what qualified me to be a graphic designer and I had enough credits between web design and graphic design to earn me the title of "bachelor's degree equivalent". All that I needed was a 20 piece portfolio. -- I think my computer crashed on purpose, it was like, you suck and you need to start over. -- At first I was furious to have to start over but then my new stuff rocked! I secretly thanked ol' mac for crashing. I did 13 pieces in a year. My plan was to start promoting myself after my 15th piece and do freelance graphic design from home. When I became pregnant with Twinkle Toes, I developed a serious case of artist's block. After she was born, I expected the fog to lift and I'd be able to jump back on the wagon, but 2 kids made it impossible to complete an entire thought -- Thus, I began hating being a stay at home mom. I wasn't crazy about it before, now I HATED it.

I just wanted a little job. A way to get out of the house, earn a little extra cash, and find some sanity. I knew that the kids needed me here, and I only wanted something part time. The other issue was that I still wanted to be able pursue graphic design... So, I decided to train to be a yoga instructor. I love doing yoga, I want to be able to share it with other people and the job has very flexible hours. Last November, I signed up for a course in June. I would have done it sooner, but June was the first available. Well... it hit me a couple of months ago, my days are numbered... I'm not going to be home all day forever... It's like a huge weight was lifted, and I could finally treat this like the vacation that everyone thinks it is. Haha! Yea... I'm not yet a working mom, but when I hear about them complaining about working and not being able to stay at home, I think, THEY have it easy! This sums it up perfectly: Stay-At-Home vs. Working Parents: Questions to help spouses bridge the communication gap. The only thing that I can add is, pretend you busted your ass all day and nobody noticed. Nobody said thank you and the world proceeded to move on as if you never existed. Maybe I'd feel differently in their shoes...

Now we are taking full advantage of this and we never sit still. We're either fishing, hiking, gardening, taking care of chickens, running errands, or going to yoga. I've given up having a spotless house because after dusting your entertainment center 1,460 times, you really just want to throw it out the window... and if your never home, it doesn't bother you. I'm ABSOLUTELY LOVING IT!! Why did it take me so long to get here? Why did I care so much about what everyone thought? And can I maintain this joy about it forever? We will see, we will see.